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When I jokingly mentioned my topic for today’s post would be “Kiss Mah Grits,” I had no intention of going through with it, I just thought the quote was a cute way to break up the day on Twitter. (After all, who wouldn’t enjoy a well-timed tribute to Polly Holliday, who played the character Florence Jean Castleberry a.k.a Flo on the 80s TV sitcom “Alice?” ) But the more I thought about it, the more compelling the topic became. After all, while social media can be a real blessing, at times I really feel like telling my detractors – and yes, they’re out there – to “kiss off” on no uncertain terms. Nobody likes a critic. (Especially this nobody!) But for better or for worse, they exist and social media networks make it even easier for them to find you and deliver a snarky slap-down that can haunt you and your personal brand forever. Literally forever thanks to the power of *!$#@%^ social media! That kinda sucks huh? Yeah, it does. So what’s a plucky up-and-coming social media darling like you to do when faced with a Troll? Read on.
Social media and Trolls. The two go together like sugar and ants, suburbia and urban sprawl, vegetables and pesticide, me and the beltline. I was fortunate enough to attend SXSW in Austin last week and sat in on a social media conversation on just this topic. Participants came from all walks of life – forum administrators, media IT gatekeepers, editors and publishers, social media movers and shakers – but all shared a common question: what is a Troll and how do you stop one?
A Troll, the group decided, is someone who participates in a community with the effect of disrupting it, even if that disruption is non-intentional. Trolls don’t correct their behavior once it’s clear they’re disrupting. One doesn’t need to be cruel, sardonic or overly sarcastic to be labelled a Troll, sometimes a Troll can be a Troll simply because they’re relentless in their persistence, dominating any conversation and leaving other participants feeling cowed. Or perhaps the Troll is a topic spammer, injecting their personal crusade into any and all online conversations. Bottom line: a Troll is an unwanted disruption of social media engagement. So now that we know what a Troll is, how do we combat one?
For us human types, the answer is easy. We IGNORE Trolls. Like fire, a Troll cannot exist without a fuel source. While the barbs and arrows flung by a Troll might sting like the dickens, and you REALLY REALLY want to shoot a few well placed zingers back in their general direction, this will only exacerbate the situation. Experience shows that when a Troll is completely ignored, it fades away. In fact this is the recommended solve for anyone who runs an online forum – make it so the Trolls’ comments can only be seen by the Troll themselves – eventually they figure out they’re only talking to themselves and they go bye-bye. So next time you face a Troll, don’t reach for your “Retort” button – in fact, step away from the keyboard. Trolls will be Trolls. You’re better than them – heck, you might even LEARN something from them.
So now that you know to ignore Trolls, where SHOULD you spend your time online? Try fostering relationships with those who engage you online, that’s where the real value lies. I always try to respond to those who comment on my blog posts – after all, they took the time to read and share their thoughts, why shouldn’t I do the same? It’s certainly more rewarding than getting all worked up over a Troll’s snarky-ass comments.
It’s funny – training a puppy is a lot like training a social media audience. Use positive reinforcement to encourage behavior you want to see, ignore negative behavior completely and it’ll eventually go away.
And what if your Troll is a persistent cuss? Try this mantra: “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and if you don’t like it darlin’, you can Kiss Mah Grits!”
(Rinse and repeat because you’re fabulous. Yes, you are!)
All votes are in and Marlena Deutsch of Madison-based Stephan & Brady is the first Chairwoman of the Social Media Club of Madison. Congratulations Marlena. Please take a moment to send props to Marlena on Twitter @InMadison.
Wendy Soucie is Incoming Chair and will take over as Chairwoman in 2011. Please send her congratulations on Twitter @WendySoucie.
Stay tuned for more updates from MadisonSMC in the coming days!
The nominations are in and now it is your turn to vote for the first Chair of the Social Media Club of Madison! Please find information on all three candidates below. Voting will be open until 7PM CST, Tuesday, January 5th. Second Place will be offered the post of “Incoming Chair” – this position will serve as Chair in 2011 and will be an essential member of the 2010 Board.
About the 2010 Candidates
Wendy Soucie
Wendy is a 30-year veteran businesswoman who brings ideas about how to help B2B companies get started with social media. She has spent 5 years with marketing agencies and understands the marketing side and how social media fits; she has spent 4 years with IT consulting firms and understands the technology side as well; and her 30 years in business development has prepared her to understand social media’s place in this environment as well.
Wendy is a certified Black Diamond Consultant with the Social Media Academy. She is a Beta tester for the new Social Relationship Management tool xeesm.com as well as a LinkedIn Trainer for Integrated Alliances. Wendy’s website/blog is located at www.wendysoucie.com. In addition, she blogs for Blog WI Social Media – networkmindshare.blogspot.com – and is a writer for Madison Social Media Examiner.com.
Find out more about Wendy, including her websites, on LinkedIn.
Jeff Bach
Jeff is responsible for business development and long-term growth strategies for two media production companies. Recent successes include:
1) Partnering with Kwik Trip, Badger Sports Properties and the University of Wisconsin Athletic Department on a major promotional project resulting in over 800,000 entries in the promotion database.
2) Developing relationships and sales channel with two national distributors, resulting in our products being picked up by REI.
As a content creator and video producer, Jeff has long understood that the production of content is the easy part. The real work starts when you begin to consider how to distribute and monetize that content. He sees social media as a means of distribution, promotion, and spreading the word. And also views it as another arrow in the quiver of tools to build our presence as individuals and businesses. In Jeff’s opinion, the most valuable part of social media is the removal of friction. Social media is making it easier for trusted sources to get the word out to friends, family and followers, when that trusted source decides to share.
Find out more about Jeff, including his websites, on LinkedIn.
Marlena Deutsch
Marlena has been in the communications and PR field for more than 7 years, focusing on getting the right message out in a number of venues – speech writing, crisis communications, brand management and public speaking. Most recently, her work at Stephan & Brady allowed her to host Madison’s first TweetUps, gathering other local Twitterati to swap ideas, best practices and next steps.
Marlena blogs for S&B at http://www.stephanbrady.com/food4thought/ and hosts and writes her own blog, First Smiles and Tears, at http://firstsmilesandtears.wordpress.com/ - a portal for parents to share their favorite moments and fears.
Marlena holds received her BA at UW-Madison and her Master’s at The Ohio State University.
Find out more about Marlena, including her websites, on LinkedIn.
Carol Rosenstock
Carol has 20+ years in Business to Business with the Wealth Management industry and most recently is utilizing those talents as the Business Development consultant with Brava Magazine. As well as direct sales and marketing, Carol has been an intregal part of the social media campaign to disseminate quality connections for networking as well as connecting the community together to achieve results for profit and non-profit ventures.
She has served on the Board of Directors for EWGA, Executive Women Golf Association. Is on the commitee and future 2010 Board of Director for The Business Forum, a women’s networking group. She is also, an Excecutive Member for the United Way for Dane County. In addition to her Board positions, she is a member is TBF, Middleton Chamber of Commerce, attends HTHH and Girls Night Out events. It is important to be connected within your community throughout networking and being invited to events for Brava Magazine articles.
Carol holds an MBA from our local Edgewood College and is very tied to the Madison community as she has lived in WI for 43 years; married 11 years with three children.
To find out more about Carol, please visit her on LinkedIn.
We have been very busy meeting with folks from all around the area about the new Social Media Club of Madison. While we work to ramp up interest, ideas, members and a great calendar of events application we have set our sights on rolling out a more substantial vision for our work at the beginning of the New Year. Please continue to provide recommendations on new members and share your thoughts with us on Twitter (@MadisonSMC), Facebook (Social Media Club of Madison) or via email at MadisonSMC at Gmail dot Com.
Welcome to the new virtual home of the Social Media Club of Madison and a prospective online repository for social media events and programming in the greater Madison area. If you are a social medialite or relevant group in and around Madison with an event to promote please submit it through our Calendar of Events tool and we will do our best to help you spread the word. If you’d be interested in connecting so would we. Please send us a note via the comments section.





